Weight Neutrality

Weight Neutrality

What is Weight Neutrality?

I wanted to write a post that discusses the idea of weight neutrality, because my assumption is that it might be a new term for many readers. And you may have seen the term “weight neutral dietitian” tossed around a bit around here, so it is important to talk a little bit about it.

As a dietitian working in Canada, many people assume I am in the job of helping people “manage their weight”. This is an easy assumption to make; we have heard millions of messages over the past 50 years talking about the (supposed) problems of increasing average body weights and increasing ill health facing many people in our countries.

When many of us think about health, and in particular preventative health (in other words, the idea of trying to prevent ourselves from getting sick, or developing a chronic disease), we often connect our body weight to that prevention. This means we tend to think that lowering our weight, or being thin means we are healthy, or healthier than if we exist in a larger body.

But what if the link isn’t so black and white?

This might be surprising news to many readers. It might be hard for some of us to wrap our heads around because we have heard the message repeatedly from the news, the media, and many health professionals. Moreover, many of us have spent many years working to decrease our body size or supposedly maintain a smaller body size – likely with varying degrees of success.

We now refer to this more traditional point of view as “weight centric”, because it centers weight as the crux of health. However, the science doesn’t add up for this perspective. Along with that, we also don’t have a “solution” for higher weight bodies to shrink that is successful for most people long term.

Weight neutrality is an alternative point of view, where we see weight as neutral in the pursuit of health; instead of seeing it as the thing that needs to change to achieve health. It is at most a byproduct. An unpredictable byproduct at that. It is no longer a middleman, holding your health hostage on the other side of a smaller body.

Yes but I really do need to lose weight

A desire to lose weight is completely normal. There is pressure from every corner of society for everyone to lose weight. If you live in a body that is considered large or “above a healthy weight”, there is extra pressure. I will be talking about this more in the future, but for now I’d like to leave you with a couple questions for reflecting on:

Why do you want to lose weight? What is the motivation behind this desire?

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If you want to dive into these questions with someone, book a 15 minute discovery call with me, because it isn’t easy to rethink our we think about health and weight, but sometimes it is exactly what we need to do to really regain a sense of agency around our health and our life.

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    A healthy relationship to food

    A healthy relationship to food

    What exactly does it mean to have a healthy relationship to food?

    For today’s blog post I wanted to talk a little bit about what I mean by helping people improve their relationship to food, because it’s a term that is getting used a lot more, but doesn’t necessarily have an easy to find (or completely agreed upon) definition.

    I know some people who come to this blog are imagining that a healthy relationship to food is one where someone sees food only as fuel, they have complete control. I don’t see or hear this much now, but I know when I started my “healthy eating journey” some 17 years ago, this was a common way to think of a healthy relationship to food. No emotions involved, no over eating (though probably lots of under eating), no indulging, just complete and utter control of appetite and cravings.

    But is that really healthy?

    Is that a great way to think about food and the way we eat? I’d argue no. I also can’t help but wonder if it isn’t a myth as well, because anyone I knew who espoused to eat that way was most definitely emotionally attached to that, as in they were filled with pride and clearly felt superior: they had outsmarted our basic biology.

    Ok, so what is a healthy relationship to food?

    It is going to look – well, a bit messy actually.

    One of my favourite definitions comes from Ellyn Satter and is her definition for normal eating.

    A healthy relationship to food is flexible. It allows for “healthy” food, and prioritizes our enjoyment. We eat till we are full (comfortably, and sometimes too full, and sometimes not enough). Hunger is experienced as an important body signal telling us to eat, not the enemy of a “healthy” eating plan.

    We do not pathologize cravings. Cravings are accepted as a normal part of being a human who enjoys food. When we have a health relationship with food cravings often lose their power, because we stop putting some foods off limits. On top of this the euphoria or high we associate with eating those off limits food fades too. (Though this can take a long time)

    This goes ditto for enjoyment in our food, and adding flavour through methods that we usually think of unhealthy. Have dressing on your salad (without measuring it) – even gasp a creamy dressing!

    What little ways have you denied enjoyment in your meals? What ingredients are you scared to have because of their supposed ills?

    Everyone’s healthy relationship to food is going to look a little different. We won’t all get to a magical place where we can eat whatever we want, when we want. Some of us will probably have some food rules hanging out in our lives on and off.

    Okay, so how do I get there?

    There are some amazing methods people have developed to help us get there.

    Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch developed Intuitive Eating, a way to find peace with food. I highly recommend their book and following Evelyn Tribole on Instagram.

    Ellyn Satter’s eating competence model, is an evidence based tool to help you understand how competent you are at feeding yourself.

    In my work I use pieces of both these methods, along with other tips and tools I’ve found helpful for clients over the years. So book the next available Discovery Call today.

    I’m not sure what you’re describing is healthy, I have health concerns I want to manage.

    I understand that this way of talking about food might be counterintuitive. But as a registered dietitian with nearly a decade of experience, what I want to ask you is this:

    How have traditional ways of thinking about healthy eating served you?

    Did you feel healthy?

    Or did you frequently feel out of control around food? Or like a failure?

    We can find a healthy relationship with food, and honour our health needs. I do not believe these are opposing ideas. I’m just talking about our relationship to food in a way that sounds scary, because it goes against a decades old narrative we have about how health is achieved.

    Still curious? Book an appointment today.

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      2021

      2021

      Hello, and welcome to the first post of 2021 and this blog. My name is Bronwyn and I am a dietitian living and working in Kamloops BC.

      My hope as a registered dietitian offering private practice services in Kamloops BC is to offer people an alternative to the typical nutrition related education most people find.

      What can you expect from this blog?

      I hope to bring you:

      • Weight neutral ways to think about health and healthy eating.
      • Healthy eating tips and tricks, especially for supporting an active lifestyle.
      • Some of the things you will gain when you stop pursuing weight loss.
      • Some of the reasons it is challenging to stop pursuing weight loss.
      • A critical lens on the current nutrition, health and wellness trends (yes even if it is supposedly “evidenced based).
      • And maybe some recipes (don’t want to make too strong a promise on this, not my strength!)

      For now, take a look at my about me page for a bit more information on me and this practice.

      Or check out the services page to find out more about what we offer.

      As we work to get a newsletter up and running, you can always book an appointment and get started!

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